The mysterious creatures on Earth- Women, love to be followed, hit upon, approached and impressed. They are as much attracted to the opposite sex as much as men are. Then why is it difficult to impress them? It is because the fairer sex is so used to being approached that any guy using the same old tricks tends to join the league of the rejected men. If you really want to impress girls, you must do what most men don’t do – use tricks that can make any girl fall for you. Many websites will suggest having a good personality, giving compliments, sending gifts and flowers etc to impress her. But do you really think they are enough? Do you think it is that easy to impress girls? Had it been really simple, you wouldn’t be wasting time in reading this piece.
So let’s know some of the best ways of impressing girls
First thing all men must make note of is being natural and having an identity. Some guys like to change their habits and style for the girl they love, thinking this will impress her. But the reality is that girls like guys who are natural and not fake, who do not seek approval and permission of the girl in everything they do. Do not change yourself for your girl, she will not get impressed. In fact she will treat you as her pet who is always loyal to his master. A girl needs a man to love and not a pet or a doormat.
Being natural also emphasizes on the fact that girls are not impressed by money and power. Many movies have proved that when girls give away their heart, they don’t see if the guy is rich or poor. If you show off your big luxury car or a high-tech gadget, it won’t affect a girl. So again, be natural and don’t pretend to be someone you are not.
Almost all females like some kind of drama and romance. This is quite reflective in the daily soaps and movies they like to watch. But what is important about these drama and romantic flicks is the main hero who is an alpha male. Every girl wants to feel safe in the arms of her partner and an alpha male has a strong personality, capable of protecting her from all fears. So to impress a girl, you need to have that confidence, that attitude, that physique that makes you look like a true winner.
Always believe that you have everything a girl wants in her man. Only when you feel good about yourself, you’ll be able to impress your girl. This also reflects how confident you are of your looks and overall personality. A confident man can do anything to impress and approach a girl.
These days everyone has an online profile and we connect with so many people through social networking websites. This is a great way of impressing girls. Status messages are an intelligent way of portraying your personality. We get to know a lot about a person through his status updates, the kind of places he visits, people he interacts with etc. So always work on your online profile and make sure you connect with not just one but most of your friends. This will give an impression that you are a social person, who likes to hang out with friends.
Having latest pictures uploaded every now and then also speak about the kind of person you are. Some girls get impressed by good photography and the type of places you visit and capture in your camera.
Posting your latest pictures or commenting on her pictures is also a good way of impressing a girl. Compliments are always good for girls and when they are given on an online platform, they are visible to hundreds of people. This not only makes the girl feel good, but she is also impressed by you.
Your online interactions with other people also reflect whether or not you are a mature person. So type your words wisely because your girl is closely watching your moves.
Another way of impressing a girl is to fix a time of sending her a text. Once you know what time she returns from her college or work, you can send her a ‘How are you? How was your day?’ message. Once you become regular with it, she will wait for your message everyday.
Though you care for her but when you protect her physically from unwanted crowd at public places, she will feel safe with you. Showing leadership or taking control of things also impresses a girl. Have your independent choices and decisions. Even when you get drunk together, be in control of the situation. Once she builds that trust with you, she will be more comfortable around you.
Do not attempt to touch her even when you know you can get away with it. To impress a girl, it is important to win her confidence and trust in you. She should not ever doubt your intentions when going out or spending time with you in an isolated location.
Last but not the least, give your girl the emotional support she needs. Let’s be practical and face it that not all girls will have a normal life. Some may have difficult financial situation or some may have a difficult past. Whatever be the case, help her overcome her fears and feel comfortable with you. She will be impressed when you give her your time and emotional support. And if she is a happy go lucky girl, she will have lots to talk about. Lend an ear to her and she will be happy just chatting. The more you listen and participate in her chats, the more impressed she will be.
Dating Symbol’s guest author today is Manali (Vaish) Arora, the Co-Founder of www.riflebirds.com – Love, Dating, Relationships and More.