Looking fashionable for your first date

Singles know how important it is to make a great first impression when going out on a first date. From a guy’s perspective, it takes a lot of courage to go up to a girl you’ve never met before and get to know her to the point you can ask her out. You don’t want to blow this opportunity to meet your future partner. If you are a guy that hasn’t been dating anyone lately, or just haven’t had much luck on dates, you might need a few pointers to turn your luck around.

There are a handful of guys that try and go overboard by planning several things to do on their first date. If you are this person, you are making a big mistake. This isn’t the time to try and impress her with all of the things you can do. Rather, you should impress her by letting her get to know by talking over coffee or lunch. Asking a girl out to dinner can be a big first step, but she is less likely to turn down a cup of coffee or lunch. Take note of these tips as you prepare for the big first date:

DO shower: Do you really think a girl wants to sit next to a guy that smells? Take a shower before going out on any date, especially the first one!

DO carry breath mints or gum: When you are talking with a girl, she doesn’t want to deal with your foul breath. Chew a piece of gum or eat a mint before heading to your date, and again after your meal. Don’t forget to offer her one after the meal too.

DO shave: Girls appreciate guys that take the time to clean up before a date. You don’t want to appear burly and dirty, so make sure to trim your facial hair or shave completely so you don’t look unkempt.

DO eat a snack: If you are going for lunch during the busy noon hour, it may take awhile to get your food. Eat a small snack so you aren’t hungry and appear impatient for your food.

DON’T be late: Being late is rude, especially for a first date. You only get one first impression and the least you can do is be punctual.

DON’T wear too much cologne: Many men spray way too much cologne on for a date. You shouldn’t be smelt a block away; a simple spray or two will be fine.

DON’T drink too much: You might think you can handle your alcohol, but the girl won’t be impressed by how much you can drink on a first date. Limit yourself to no more than 2 drinks; you’ll thank me later for this advice!

DON’T think about letting her pay: A guy pays for the girl on a first date, period!

Many men also struggle to dress properly for their first date. More often than not, the guy will dress extremely nicely for a simple lunch date or for coffee. If you are meeting during a break at work, this is acceptable; no one expects you to change out of your suit. However, if you are meeting over the weekend or a non-work day, don’t go overboard. When in doubt, simple casual works best. Below is an example of how you can dress well for your date while encompassing the latest trends of 2012:

Aviators |Jeans | Sweater | T-Shirt | Casual Shoes

 Layering is popular this winter and spring, and is especially convenient as well. A simple long sleeved shirt with a sweater is perfect for any lunch or coffee occasion, and allows you to take off your sweater if the restaurant is too hot. If it’s cold, you can offer your sweater to your date. What really completes the look is a pair of aviators. They signal that you are fashionable and know how to accessorize! Just make sure to take them off when you are indoors.

Dating is supposed to be fun for singles, not stressful! We hope these tips help you have a successful first date!

Dating Symbol’s guest writer today, Adam, enjoys helping ensure guys are up to date on the latest fashion trends. Whether he’s helping put together a look or finding the perfect sunglasses, he’ll make sure you’ll look great at an affordable price.